Good things could happen to good people?

Why is that when you do a good deed most of the time you would rarely see something good happen to you in return? I'm a big believer in karma, but lately it hasn't been working out. Actually it never works out. Why do good things happen to bad people? Why do bad things happen to good people? Because it just does. Well sorry that answer just isn't good enough for me.

Good people die everyday while the bad people are still walking on this earth.
Good people get shit on when the bad people get all the glory.
Good people get the sloppy seconds when the bad people get first dibs.
Good people get sick when the bad people stay healthy.

Now what if this good person was to turn it all around and do everything she could to be a bad person to obtain all these benefits? Well it wouldn't do any good. Because no matter what happens that person will always be a good person at heart. Now yes you'd think it only gets worse before it gets better, but for how long before it gets worse again?

I'm fed up with this definition of consequences and rewards. None of it makes sense nor is it fair.

Those are the moments....

Awkward situations are the best. No matter what the situation is you can make the best out of it. It gives you a story to tell later on and will most likely always teach you something whether it's about people in general or generally what not to do or what to do.

-If your going out to dinner with your friends and there is one person there that you hoped wouldn't go, but did anyway, it doesn't matter because something good can come from it especially if there is one friend who shares that same opinion as you do.

Girls are one fucked up species.

So what I have to say is this....Girls are a fucked up species, but that doesn't give them the right to do things like this. It also isn't and will never be an excuse to do stupid shit.


-Never and I mean never pass a message on to your soon to be ex-boyfriend through your friend. This only proves what a horrible young lady you are or how you are too immature to speak for yourself.

Never and I mean never say one thing and contradict it with this one action.

-"I love you" is a strong phrase and shouldn't be said unless the meaning is understood. When you say it, mean it. Don't say it like you say the word "the". It shouldn't be a common phrase unless it's the truth. So think again when you decide to say it. Is it too early? Do you really feel that way or do you just feel like saying it? All I'm saying is try to understand that three word combination.

-One piece of advice. If you decide one relationship isn't the one for you, look again. You might be throwing something away that later you will realize and say "I made a mistake and I miss you." By then you look stupid.


I say this with all the concern for other girls who might think that this was okay or do not know of this silly thing that happens all the time.

Here you are perverts...my levels on sex.

So I've explained this to many different people. Seems to make sense to them, too.



1) I believe you can call it "making love" when honestly you truly love the person and want to express that love.
2) It's "fucking" when your hormones are raging and that other person looks pretty tasty if you know what I mean.
3) It's making love when you haven't seen your partner in a long time and you've missed them.
4) It's fucking when you haven't seen your partner in a long time and you've missed them...and their sex.
5) It's making love when you just want the other person to be gentle.
6) It's fucking when you just want the other person to be rough on you.

Welcome to what I call myself...

When you hear Melissa what is it that you think of? That every other girl has that same name? Your friend who has that name? Another Melissa you might know? Well in this case, don't.

I don't think you understand...[To the girl who doesn't know what she really has.]

This person you call your one and only is just another one of the bitches you'll realize you hate. Why when I say to watch out, you ignore the fact that I used to be one of your best friends. A higher level of social inquiries awaited you, this was the turn around. As I drifted, she got closer and the word I'd like to use is "manipulation".

She isn't who you think she is, and if I'm wrong....well I'm sorry for that, but I know for a fact that I am not. That first impression and introduction wasn't a good one.

One day I hope you can forgive my involvement in your choice even though my opinion is more likely advice than telling you not to be with her all together. Why would I decide to ruin anything you enjoyed or tell you this information if it wasn't for your own safety or well being? Because to you I am a bitch who doesn't know what she's talking about.